Its September! Are you Manifesting your Best Ever Results yet!

It is September 1, 2011 (yeeeeaaahhhh. . . .:-), Happy New Month guys!!!! I must confess that I am both excited and nervous at the same time! 2011 is determined to race to the finish line as fast as it can, isn't it? September, however, is a stellar month! This month marks for me, the beginning of taking stock of my whole year’s set goals and aspirations and also ushers in the MBER months! Months for Manifesting Your Best Ever Results; based on the goals and aspirations I set at the beginning of the year.

It’s time to get honest with ourselves. . . Can we confidently say that we have begun to Manifest our Best Ever Results as of today, September 1, 2011? Have we reached our set goals/aspirations that we were so enthusiastically committed to at the beginning of the year? Are we still very far from the manifestation phase of those goals or are we closer than ever to manifesting our best ever results? Did you embark on a weight loss goal at the beginning of the year? How are you doing with that..:-)? Did you promise to work on being a more loving, kinder and understanding version of yourself at the beginning of the year? How did you do? Did you promise to step up in your relationship and become better at understanding your partner? How did you do? Are you able to check off some goals on your list? Are you able to check of NO goals on your list?  Honesty guys, please. . . :-)

Do you recall the enthusiastic spirit with which you welcomed the year 2011 and the goals  or resolutions that you promised yourself you would achieve before the end of the year. If you have not started manifesting those either because you still have not taken that Critical First Step (CFS); or because you did take the CFS but are yet to take those series of Important Next Steps (INS) towards manifesting those goals; today is the day to start! Recreate that enthusiastic spirit and make it happen! It is your dreams; your goals, your aspirations and so you know what the critical first steps and important next steps entail!  Do not give up! We still have about 120 days and approximately, about 2,880 hours to Manifest those Best Ever Results that we desire! Start NOW!

If you happen to be welcoming this brand new month of Manifesting your Best Ever Results with one or two goals that you already manifested; kudos to a job well done because it does take a lot of commitment, hard work, dedication and resilience to be able to Manifest those results! You deserve to give yourself a special treat for that. . .:-) If you are like me with some goals that you were able to check off and some goals that still have a few loose strings to tie before they manifest, then follow these quick tips:

1. Enthusiastically follow through with that Critical First Step (CFS) NOW; not tomorrow! If you have already started but need some other important steps in order to manifest those goals, Follow through with those Important Next Steps (INS) NOW, as in TODAY, not tomorrow.
2. Never worry that you do not have everything it takes to manifest those goals. We are all endowed with just enough to start anything whatsoever! Start with what you have from a place of FAITH; the missing parts of the puzzle will appear one link at a time. Its manifestation is exclusively tied 100% to your FAITH;
3. Try to give it 100% any time that you work at it! Not only are you building a strong and dogged character, but hard work would always pay given that action and reaction usually tend to be equal and opposite – Newton’s 2^nd law of motion; and finally,
4. Never believe people who tell you that it cannot be done because their reality and truth is theirs and not yours, it is only their opinion; your own reality and your own truth is what counts! It is entirely up to you! What you believe becomes your truth and your reality and will manifest in your life! You call the shots!. In the alternative, AVOID, AVOID, and AVOID such people if you can. . .:-)

I wish you a most stellar month of September! – the beginning of the months for taking stock and Manifesting your Best Ever Results! Let us work together on checking off a few more items on our to do list. J

Lovingly yours,

Ogor

~xoxo~ 

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Meet my two new BEST Friends!

Ok, . . . , it’s been a while since I wrote a new article on the blog even though I still throw out some inspirants here and there. . .:-) How is everyone doing? I really have missed you . . J,  . . .yes I have, even though I have kept in touch with some of you on FB! I have been swamped with a lot of things especially in the past weeks; kids are on vacation and so I have to absolutely make out time for them to have as much fun as possible; and then there is work, and then, I am painstakingly working on the book, and finally, I am like you, busy playing the game of life.J. Sometimes that game gets all crazy and then it feels really crazy, doesn’t it? It does for me sometimes:-)

So I want to keep this really short and straight to the point. Have you ever felt like things are really way off course, probably someone whom you’ve trusted had betrayed you; or that life is coming at you so darn fast that you seem to be losing control? As long as you are still breathing and hopefully still have your good health, it might make sense for you to also make friends with my two best friends -  Ms. SIU, and Ms. KIM. These two ladies are exceptional in every way because they keep it real with me and also put a positive and optimistic spin to almost everything in my life! They are deeply spiritual too and are extremely passionate, persistent, intrepid, and beautiful. You absolutely need both ladies in your life at all times especially when things go wrong for you.  As a matter of fact, I have made it a point to go everywhere that I go, arm in arm with both ladies! It’s almost like a perpetual threesomeJ. Trust me, your partner or spouse will never object to it! I know they will in fact secretly encourage you to be friends with them as well. (You will understand why later on. . .).

Because I know that you are dying to be properly introduced to my two best friends, I’ll just go ahead with the formal introduction.  . . Wait!!. . . I will like to also tell you that I found out about KIM from a dear friend of mine on fb, Gina Candy Umunna.  Even though I have hear about Ms. Kim, I never realized the importance of the role she plays in the lives of anyone who cares to befriend her.  For instance, I have this wonderful idea stuck in my head for days and each day, I think about this idea and next day, I think more about this idea and savor the idea of  transforming this idea to reality! How wonderful and revolutionary that will be!!! Ms. KIM knowing that I am merely thinking and not doing anything else about executing my idea turns to me and says, “Ogor, enough already!!, you must  KIM it! “Keep It Moving” KIM it by taking the initial first step towards executing this really great idea. She does not want me to think any further and would just rather have me act on it. An unexecuted great idea is a colossal waste of time and resources. In fact, like my Bubu will say, “if you let a dream die, you have indeed lost a part of who you are”.  . . Ms. Kim is right yet again!  Do you see why I love my Ms. Kim. She keeps it real with me and constantly reminds me that “talk is cheap”. Just KIM it; Do It Ogor!!!!! KIM it my love!!!

As for Ms. SIU, the other day, I wanted to complain and vent about a seemingly difficult situation that I was navigating and Ms. Siu did not waste time in telling me, (now, imagine a tiny voice generously laced with sarcasm)  “. . .reaaally Ogor, you call that a problem?”  “That is not a problem. . ."SIU it my dear” “Suck it Up”! Until you’ve had to lose your good health or wake up under a bridge or abandoned car/building, or be unsure of your next meal, or suffered through a war or natural disaster, you have absolutely no problems and should be able to SIU any time you feel like complaining about nothing! I listened carefully to Ms. Siu and said a big THANK YOU! She is so right . . .:-)

I love these two absolutely gorgeous ladies to death! Something tells me that you would want them as your BFFs too. . . You know the best part, they are readily available for all of us at all times, if only we want them for BFFs too! J ~xoxo~

Have a fantastic week dearest friends!

Lovingly yours,

~Ogor~

Are you Ready for the ultimate Detox program?

We all have, at one point or another in our lives tried either to lose weight or to detoxify our bodies for whatever reason (mostly weight loss or health related reasons) and we are often compelled to do these because we know that it is the best things for our bodies at that point and essentially the gateway to great health. Right? As we embark on these detox or weight loss programs, we are sometimes met with successes but for some weird reason, most people fail at their weight loss or detox programs. Little do they know that the first real step towards any kind of success not only in weight loss but in virtually every aspect of our lives is to first embark on a mental detoxification. A mental detox rids virtually every obstacle that threatens our success in almost every endeavor. What do I mean by this? A mind that is plagued with toxins like fear, doubt, jealousy, envy, spite, anger, revenge, etc . is in no shape to embark on any real positive and successful endeavor. If success is met at all, it is often times quite fleeting!

When you start the exercise on mental detoxification, you almost take an unspoken oath to become conscious and more self- aware.  You become conscious of the weaknesses that you have. It is only when you acknowledge those weaknesses that presents itself in the form toxins that inhabit our minds and eat deep into our subconscious minds that we are better able to start the exercise in exterminating these toxins from our system – mental detoxification.

A mind that is free of toxic emotions is never easily distracted as it is usually very focused on an ultimate prize. A mind that is free of toxins never has time to indulge in idle talks. A mind that is free of toxins usually has the “I can” attitude because he understands that fear is only a figment of our mind that grows only if it is nurtured. A mind that is free of toxins will never suffer heart burns and sleepless nights when he sees others succeed but would rather try to find out from them, what they did to get  to where they are at. A mind that is free of toxins will actively seek out similar minds who would enrich his life and literally flee from toxic people. A mind that is free of toxins understands that failure is a disguised version of success and represents one or more of a series of bridges that leads one to their ultimate destination.

For me personally, I think a mental detoxification is a “must” for every human being who truly desires success and happiness. It almost certainly guarantees peace, happiness, a sense of freedom, good health, confidence and success. It does however demand a lot of effort on our part in order to stay the course given that human nature can certainly challenge your exercise. Friends might prove false, failures would rear its ugly head up occasionally, money might prove difficult to come by initially or you might be that lone voice challenging a toxic status quo entrenched in a system and it is proving unbearable for you! 


Listen,.  .  .; it is far better to stay the course and continue your mental detoxification in other to arrive at that great place (peace of mind, success, happiness) than to succumb to the pressure and return to the toxic mental state that almost always guarantees failure and a gloomy and miserable existence.  I know that most of us ultimately desire to be happy!

Can we all try to start the mental detox program now, . . .; like today. . .? I would love us to trade our stories of success . . .:-) I already have so much to tell. . .:-) Would you start with me? :-) I bet you will!!! NO,. . ;(i'll phrase it better) I know you will :-)

Xoxo~

Lovingly yours,

Ogor