It is one day before the
new year’s eve of 2016 and I needed to share this one with you. Most of us go
through life exactly the same way a really treasured object whose owner loses
to the waters of the ocean while aboard a cruise ship would turn out. Notice
the object gets more beat up the further it travels through the currents of the
ocean because it is pummeled in all directions by the waves and the elements as
it floats aimlessly and endlessly. Finally, it may drift ashore onto a beach
somewhere. Sometimes, it gets lucky; someone who happens to be on the beach
recognizes the value of this treasure, picks it up and takes it home, putting
it to good use. Other times, this treasure might not be that lucky and simply
gets buried in the sands of the beach, forever!
A lot of us still
believe that life is happening to us when in fact; we are active participants
in charting the courses of our lives through our current actions, thoughts, and
words. We always chart either consciously or unconsciously every single
circumstance, experience, events and even people that come into our lives. Our biggest problems in life is usually how we
go about building up the courage to step into our own lives or how to go about
taking full ownership of our lives or simply how to live as fearlessly as we
possibly can without worrying about what others would think or say about us.
The sad reality is that often times, we tend to play the role of outsiders in our own lives; who merely observes from the outside! An outsider is usually unable to do much in a situation that he does not own or control. Fear usually holds us back and makes us slaves to other people’s toxic emotions, feelings, and opinions. Listen carefully, unless you are still minors who continues to be answerable to parents, guardians or other care-givers, nothing should stop you as adults from moving into your own life and asserting yourself in it.
The sad reality is that often times, we tend to play the role of outsiders in our own lives; who merely observes from the outside! An outsider is usually unable to do much in a situation that he does not own or control. Fear usually holds us back and makes us slaves to other people’s toxic emotions, feelings, and opinions. Listen carefully, unless you are still minors who continues to be answerable to parents, guardians or other care-givers, nothing should stop you as adults from moving into your own life and asserting yourself in it.
I came to the
realization that truly living our lives to its fullest potential, means taking
full ownership of it and resisting that urge that makes us constantly to seek
approval and validation from everything outside of ourselves. This is in
recognition of the enormous power that resides within us! (your Victor) This
power makes anything we believe and work fervently towards possible!!!
A life that is lived
through the mirror of another’s experience, feelings and opinion, is a tainted
life and often, we are merely living life through the mirror and experiences of
others. How many times have you wanted to do something you really like and
after talking to another person, you have a change of heart? Think about how
many dreams, goals and aspirations you have lost as a result along your journey.
Until we assume full ownership of our life by living it on our own terms, we
really have not started living; we are merely simply, “existing”.
I personally believe
that a lot of inventions, dreams, and aspirations that potentially could have
re-written the course of human history are taken to graves by their owners on a
daily basis simply because their owners never quite moved into their own lives!
Some people who seek
affirmations and approval from others end up abandoning a dream that could have
been worth so much! Perhaps, it could have re-written the course of human
history or even positively impacted one life! Sometimes, the person you are
seeking affirmation from is not on the same frequency as you to appreciate the
genius behind that dream or aspiration; or, he does not appreciate the meaning
and magnitude of that dream to you; or, he may be simply misguided by other
negative emotions like jealousy or envy; or perhaps they simply lack the
requisite expertise needed to offer you any advice on that topic.
Begin asking yourself
this question on a daily basis especially today that we are on the verge of
meeting and greeting a new year; 2016! “Have
I really moved in into my life; am I still an outsider or have I emerged as the
true landlord in my life”? If the answer is a NO, ask again, “Am I ready to
emerge into my life as the owner/landlord”? Hopefully, with time and more
exercise on “self-belief”, the answer will change to a YES!
Remember this today in
order not to frustrate your new year’s resolution again, “Unless your goal,
dream or aspiration injures, or harms the interest of a third person, every
dream is worth pursing relentlessly because it is your dream and your life, and
you’ve committed to living your life to its fullest potential and making a
grand exit when this is all said and done”
As the clock ticks
down to 2016, let us begin to renounce living our lives as strangers or like
outsiders looking into our own lives. Let us commit to stepping it up a notch
and announcing our presence in our lives, unafraid of anything or anyone!
On a closing note, a
lot of us are still trapped in our “stranger cocoon” unsure of when we will
eventually emerge into beautiful and handsome butterflies that we are meant to
be. Resolve not to live in that cocoon especially in 2016.
Emerging into one’s life
and having the courage to announce your presence in that life is the ticket to
your peace of mind, success and happiness! Say today and mean it, "Hello _______,
(say your name), It is nice to finally meet you, I am ready to love, honor,
protect and fight for your dreams because those dreams will bless the world”.
How does that feel to say? Guess that felt goodJ
Pardon me as I ask you
once again? “Whose life is it anyway”? If it is your life, then, it is time to
move into it, immerse yourself completely into it; Live it to its fullest
potential; Celebrate it as much as you can; Dream as crazy as you wish and
please. . ., please, . . . BE NOT AFRAID to pursue those dreams as fervently as
possible especially in 2016! Why? Because IT IS YOUR DARN LIFEJ
Happy almost 2016!!!
~Ogorgeous~